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http://www.nzherald.co.nz/nz/news/article.cfm?c_id=1&objectid=10549889
That's Kaye who I used to go out with, whose wedding I attended earlier this year.
Shit shit shit shit.
Emotional crash immenent!!!!
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Edit:
The shower was running when I saw the article anyway, so I continued with that after calling my parents, and trying K&M's place just in case.
Waiting for tomorrows paper, which will probably have the death notice, before trying to hit the old workplace grapevine. I have very few contact details for anyone, but I know Kaye typically kept her work friends and family very separate and someone has to put the word out. The place is probably closed over the break and anyway a lot of people don't work there any more.
I keep catching myself thinking 'It could be another couple from Christchurch with exactly the same name and ages who ride a motorbike' and stopping myself.
I'm going to call another couple of people for the sake of making human contact, then hope there's something on TV.
Ahh, here we go - progressing from 'numb' to 'crying'
~~~
A husband and wife and another man were the people killed in a motorcycle collision east of Christchurch yesterday afternoon.
Police named the three as Martyn Hartley, 48, Kaye Hartley, 35, and Nigel Hannington, 44, all from Christchurch.
That's Kaye who I used to go out with, whose wedding I attended earlier this year.
Shit shit shit shit.
Emotional crash immenent!!!!
~~~
Edit:
The shower was running when I saw the article anyway, so I continued with that after calling my parents, and trying K&M's place just in case.
Waiting for tomorrows paper, which will probably have the death notice, before trying to hit the old workplace grapevine. I have very few contact details for anyone, but I know Kaye typically kept her work friends and family very separate and someone has to put the word out. The place is probably closed over the break and anyway a lot of people don't work there any more.
I keep catching myself thinking 'It could be another couple from Christchurch with exactly the same name and ages who ride a motorbike' and stopping myself.
I'm going to call another couple of people for the sake of making human contact, then hope there's something on TV.
Ahh, here we go - progressing from 'numb' to 'crying'
~~~
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Date: 2008-12-28 10:36 am (UTC)From:This is one of those things that scares me the most. A momentary poor decision or just bad luck, and it's all over. I'm actually really terrified of traffic. Somehow I feel fine when I'm driving, but I am always weary of other vehicles, especially when I'm walking or cycling.