Not at all normal
Jun. 17th, 2011 09:50 pmThere's something I'm seeing in a few places, a backlash against the phrase "The new normal". Which I admit to being guilty of using.
But people are right. It's not normal (in NZ) to have to shovel silt out of your property every few weeks/months. It's not normal to have a city center slowly transforming into rubble. It's not normal for adrenaline to start flowing (if you have any left) or to pause and wait just-in-case every time you hear a rumbling sound or feel a vibration underfoot.
It's important to our mental health to believe that all these things will go away. That life will get back to something resembling the way it was before. That our homes will be whole, that we can go about our lives comfortable that the contingency plan for getting the family back together is just a contingency plan, not something we might have to use today.
If we start believing that this is "normal", then we have nothing to look forward to. No reason to stay, no reason to rebuild. No reason to look forward, no reason to hold to hope.
There will be a "return to normal" in Christchurch. It will be long, and gradual, and probably one of those things that people will just look around one day and realise it has happened. Life won't be the -same-, but it will be close enough.
We need a better descriptive phrase. Something that makes it clear the situation is temporary, without implying that it's over. I'm just having trouble coming up with anything short and snappy enough.
"Life in Interesting Times" is done to death (and it's not all that interesting any more).
Anything that implies it's over (post-quake, in the aftermath) presupposes that we're not going to get any more, and we've seen how that works out.
Anything that trivialises it (ol' Shakey) is out.
"These are ongoing challenges in Christchurch."
Best I can do.
But people are right. It's not normal (in NZ) to have to shovel silt out of your property every few weeks/months. It's not normal to have a city center slowly transforming into rubble. It's not normal for adrenaline to start flowing (if you have any left) or to pause and wait just-in-case every time you hear a rumbling sound or feel a vibration underfoot.
It's important to our mental health to believe that all these things will go away. That life will get back to something resembling the way it was before. That our homes will be whole, that we can go about our lives comfortable that the contingency plan for getting the family back together is just a contingency plan, not something we might have to use today.
If we start believing that this is "normal", then we have nothing to look forward to. No reason to stay, no reason to rebuild. No reason to look forward, no reason to hold to hope.
There will be a "return to normal" in Christchurch. It will be long, and gradual, and probably one of those things that people will just look around one day and realise it has happened. Life won't be the -same-, but it will be close enough.
We need a better descriptive phrase. Something that makes it clear the situation is temporary, without implying that it's over. I'm just having trouble coming up with anything short and snappy enough.
"Life in Interesting Times" is done to death (and it's not all that interesting any more).
Anything that implies it's over (post-quake, in the aftermath) presupposes that we're not going to get any more, and we've seen how that works out.
Anything that trivialises it (ol' Shakey) is out.
"These are ongoing challenges in Christchurch."
Best I can do.